In life, it is impossible that all of people will like and love us. Every one of us would have a like and dislike. This is normal because a human has flaws and faults. Because of that, we must always try to apologize, forgive each other and tolerate everyone’s mistake. As a human, we must have faults and flaws in other’s eyes. Of course, we should realize it.
In Islam, when some people hate us, it will be better if we gave the best for them. We can pray for them. That is no problem, if they did not know and understand what we have done. Because the Ummah is like a building with the Muslims as it’s bricks, brotherhood is the cement. So, without forgiveness you can not have brotherhood.
OK then, he wronged you. He deceived you. He backbit you. He lied to you. But even in these extreme situations, the Quran and Hadith teach us that we have to forgive others (especially those who hurt us the most), If we wish to earn the forgiveness of Allah SWT on the day of Judgment.
We have all committed many sins, made many mistakes and no doubt we have wronged others, we have deceived others, we have backbit others and no doubt we have lied to others.
So, what makes uf focus into people’s errors while we remain unconscious of our own. Not to forgive is like to live in arrogance and ignorance of our own shortcomings.
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Dua in Quran for those who are tyrannized
In Quran, there are some dua that we can read to be a spiritual booster and our lives. Here are dua in Quran that can be done for those who hate us or do wrong to us. Especially they who come from the kuffaar or do not want to progress and develop Islam.
This dua will make us calmer, more peaceful and far from all forms of desires to revenge. We give backs on Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala and ask a justice to Allah SWT. A human who want to revenge are not neccessarily fair or same with our desires.
For that, we have to pray to Allah Subahanahu Wa Ta’ala , so Allah SWT will give a sign for us. Insha Allah, Allah will reply and give his justice. If they did not replied in this world, of course they will get backs more just in the afterlife.
- (Surah Ali Imran : 147)
“Our Lord, forgive us our sins and the excess [committed] in our affairs and plant firmly our feet and give us victory over the disbelieving people.”
- (Surah Yunus : 86 – 86)
“Our Lord, make us not [objects of] trial for wrongdoing people. And save us by Your mercy from the disbelieving people.”
- (Surah Al A’raf : 23)
“Our Lord, we have wronged ourselves and if You do not forgive us and have mercy upon us, we will surely be among the losers.”
- (Surah Al A’raf : 89)
“Our Lord, decide between us and our people in truth, and You are the best of those who give decision.” [AdSense-B]
- (Surah Al Hasyr : 10)
“Our Lord, forgive us and our brothers who preceded us in faith and put not in our hearts [any] resentment toward those who have believed. Our Lord, indeed You are Kind and Merciful.”
- (Surah As-Syu’ara : 83 – 85)
“My Lord, grant me authority and join me with the righteous, and grant me a reputatuion of honor among later generations. And place me among the inheritors of the Garden of Pleasure.”
- (Surah Nuh : 28)
“My Lord, forgive me and my parents and whoever enters my house a believer and the believing men and believing women. And do not increase the wrongdoers except in destruction.”
- (Surah Al Qasas : 21)
“My Lord, save me from the wrongdoing people.”
Those dua are dua in Quran and we can read them when we got many crimes, hate or evil acts from others. Of course, a Muslim has to be a good Muslim. If there was someone who hate us, then we have not to hate his back. Pray people who hate us with dua because that dua will be back to ourselves.
The wisdoms of praying people who hate us
We have not to reply people who hate us with hate them, too, because there are many wisdoms if we replied them with dua and our goodness. Of course, it is not same as humble or insult ourselves. Here are wisdoms that can be got from it.
- Heart will be calmer
If we replied people who hate us with a kindness and also prayed for them, then our heart will be calmer. Our heart will be not sick because we spend something good and we don’t reply them with evils. The badness of someone does not become a problem and it will not dirty our heart if we were more sincere.
The dirtiness of heart can happen when we reply to the hatred of others with resentment again. For that, do not let our heart dirty because of our emotions and wishes to reply it with a similar thing.
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- We are not same as those who hate us
If we did not reply their hate with resentment, too, then we are not same as those who hate us. We will get better kindness and reward from Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala. If we hated that act, then we should not be the ones who are humbling ourselves.
Do not let us do the same and we become people who are hated by others because of that act. You may also read ways to do sabr in Islam.
- A Big Reward
We will get a big reward if we did kindness to people who apply bad to us. The big reward will only be got by someone who replied badness with kindness, not the other way around. For that, we have to be a good person who always pray and light the burden of others. So, we will get that big reward from Allah Subhanhu Wa Ta’ala.
- Become a wise person
Replaying dua and kindness to those people who hate us can make us as a wise person and we will away from bad behavior. Those who replied the evil with the kindness will be have a different value. For that reason, the wisdoms will come to those who really think clearly and away from any resentments.
Hopefully we can be a wise and we always have acts as what Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta’ala commanded in pillars of Islam and six pillars of faith.